It really is true when you hear relationships may come and go,
but friends will last forever. Obviously your significant other should be a top
priority in your life but that doesn't mean you need to forget everyone else in it. E
specially your friends that have supported you and been there for you
through it all. When you first get into a relationship,
I think it's normal to want to spend as much time with that person as possible.
I mean you're getting to know each other and you guys are starting
someone new. But once you've hit that point, to where you're completely
confortable with that person, you
need to seperate a little bit. Spend time with your fellas/girls and not every
waking min with your other half. Let them have a life too. Let them
hangout with their people and you with yours. Everyone knows at then end
of the day who you're going home too.
My two best friends! I love them to death!
You NEED to make time for you friends.
You NEED to keep in touch with your friends.
Because if you don't...when that relationship ends...you wont have anyone
but yourself to hangout with. Being with someone every minute you're
not a school (Donig hw or studyin) or at work
is not healthy. You need that time with your friends. To get away
for a minute and chill. Otherwise you gunna get on that person's
nerves if you up their butt all the time. I don't care what anyone says...You
can love someone to death but if you with someone 24-7
there is going to be some resentment somewhere down the road.
I couldn't imagine my college years without these girls! The best teammates
and fam I could ask for!
It's just not good to cute ties with people that have supported
you and been there for you...especially when they haven't done anything
to deserve that. It would be one thing if they were trying to ruin your
relationship, but besides that...there should be room
for family/friends/significant other in your life.
It's called BALANCE. It's not that hard to figure out.
-KC
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