Who Gave you the Right...

I went home this past weekend for Easter weekend to see my family and friends.

But first, on Thursday I went out with my two roommates for one of their birthdays.

It was definitely a good time, but it was also annoying. This has happened to my

friends and I on more than one occasion, but this weekend it seemed to bug me

more than any other weekend.

It seems, whenever guys go out they think that can say and do whatever to get a

females attention. Well my friends...that is not ok!! It doesn't make any sense to me

and it kills me when I see it actually work. I understand that some are dressed more

scandales than other and some dance more provacative than other, but that doesn't

give you the right to treat me like someone standing on a street corner and yell at types

of crazy things at me to get my attention. I dont know what your intentions are, whether

you want my name, or number or to get to know me...yelling at me from the sidewalk,

out of a car door and pulling my arm as I walk by you in a club isn't the right way

to do it. If it annoys me I know it annoys other women.

Have some RESPECT! If I were interested in you than I would let you know.

But coming up to me and actin like that just gets on my nerves. I think it's a copout

to say were asking to be treated that way because of the way we dress or how

we dance. Granted, some girls go to the clubs just to come home with a guy.

And I don't expect a guy to pick and choose which ones those are, but most of the

time they are pretty evident. And please please please respect my space. You don't

have to get all in my space to tell me something. Because half the time you're not

that cute and your breath smells bad or like straight alcohol and I'm not trying

to deal with that.

And if I don't want to talk to you, don't make me repeat myself. Because than

you just start looking real desperate when I have to tell you to go away more

than one time. Just enjoy your night. If you dance with someone...great..if not...

it's not the end of the world. If you don't go home with someone's number it's

still not the end of the world. This goes for girls as well as guys! Throwing
yourself at someone is NOT cute! It just makes you look desperate and needy.
Act like a lady, and you'll be treated like one. Well...for the most of the time.

And this isn't meant to be just about me! I've seen it happen to just about all

of my friends and I know it happens to other women becuase I've seen it

before. I just don't get it. And it's almost like an everyday thing. It doesn't

just have to be at a club. It could be at a gas station, WalMart...haha or at

school! It's actually quite funny sometimes. I just want to be like really...

did you really think that was going to work?? Calling someone beaufiul

can only get you so far. I can call anyone that!

Find a NEW approach fellas!

-KC